Secrets In Marriage

Indeed, good communication requires openness. But that does not mean that all problems should be disclosed to the spouse outright. So, says dra. Astrid Wiratna, one should not, really, save some of the most personal thing in the corner in the heart most. Because if disclosed and make the marriage broke up, openness even lose its meaning.

When Should Talk About Money

Although ready-made husband and wife, about this one remains sensitive. That’s because, says Astrid, wise attitude required of the wife, especially when income is greater than the husband. Because the culture of Indonesia is still considered necessary to maintain the prestige of men as heads of households. In this context, it is suggested that the wives who happened larger income than her husband did not need to be ranted to the “whole world” shows his prowess.

“Actually, what is in marriage is common property, including money. Never again there are assumptions and this money is my money, but we belong together, which is managed jointly to finance domestic needs,” he said. Ego-man not easily offended, it will appreciate the greatness of his wife.

When Conflict Hit Households

Many consider, the emergence of conflict in marriage is not a good sign. In fact, conflict can arise at any time and may be experienced by anyone. Experts said, the conflict is not something to be avoided, really. Although the need to be observed in order to make changes or adjustments here and there for the good of spouses and marriage, including the face of complex conflicts that are difficult to overcome. Do not get discouraged if as if faced with an impasse, but try the following ways.

Identify areas of conflict

When does a conflict arises, try to ponder why. Do not rush to blame the spouse. Try to introspection. Not impossible, lo, the trigger comes from ourselves. When you point the problem is found, focus themselves to it, do not sputter to other things, let alone that there was no connection at all.

Apply a way to communicate a healthy and constructive

Avoid words less effective that will only make things worse.

Never be afraid to be honest

Including express what we feel and think. Throw away the prejudice that the couple would not listen to what we deliver.

Solve problems one by one

That’s because, never went to the next stage or other problems, if the stage or previously unresolved issues.

Hold a discussion

Focus on things that will hopefully provide a way out. Remember, the blame does not give any benefit. If you need help each party to write a piece of paper before making a deal with the best alternative so both options.

Solutions that have been selected should be reevaluated. If it is in the middle of the road was unable to reconcile the interests of both sides, is fine, really, make changes / adjustments here and there.

Smooth Face Without Black Spots

Increasing age, more and more ‘ornamental’ appearance of the face which could damage, such as black spots or brown spots. Come, nurse facial skin to remain smooth.

You may smile when looking back at old photos that still glow with skin that is so bright. But he got older, many of the problems facing your skin especially in tropical countries with such a blistering sun, One skin problems when stepping Age over 30 years is the black spots, black spots arise due to several factors such as genetics, food and beverage fast food causing effects of free radicals on the skin.

And the most important causes is exposure to sunlight, because when the skin is exposed to sunlight without any protection, then the skin will protect itself by producing melatonin or skin pigment cells to excess and then melatonin was forming a small blemishes that disrupt the appearance.

How to remove black spots

Eliminate the black spots on the skin surface is not the easy way, need intensive care for the black spots disappear from your skin glow again.

1. Use a sunblock with an SPF content of 30%, with the use of repetition after 3-4 hours.

2. Use a natural mask yam or potato or yam puree in a way shaped like potatoes until coarse puree, strain and then separated between water and residue, then use the yam or potato pulp as a mask, wait about 20 minutes then rinse with warm water.

3. Avoid the use of clean cleansing milk early in the morning or at night simply by washing your face with plain warm water, because the toner face will make your skin look dry.

4. Use a natural mask of lemon slices, by cutting oranges in half, then rub over the surface of the skin that are stain spots, let sit for a moment to dry then rinse with warm water.

5. Consumption of fruits and vegetables that contain selenium that is useful to dampen the activity of free radicals in the body and the Vitamin C found in oranges, tomatoes, and guava. Vitamin C helps fight skin pigmentation and limited skin from dryness.

6. And if you want to get a smooth skin free of black spots can instantly using several ways such as laser therapy, and mesotherapy mikrodemabrasi.

Back to Young with Botoxology

No need to feel the pain to get a smooth skin without wrinkles instantly. With botoxology system, your skin will be young again.
Today we know, Botox is the process of eliminating wrinkles and tightening face an instant way of injecting an anti-wrinkle serum into the skin layers. But, it is an old way which may be a bit dangerous. With the presence botoxology, your skin becomes taut without danger. Botoxology is a method of the latest anti-aging treatment without the use of injection and non-surgical face lift (face the withdrawal process by means of plastic surgery) with a combination of biolift engine technology and the strength of the ‘magic serum’, both can work outside and within the maximum . And how old is transformed into a hideous facial toning process which quickly and safely.
Botoxology process on the face begin from:
1. Clean the eye and lip makeup of the dust and the rest by using eye makeup remove r.
2. After cleaning it up with the entire face using a milk cleanser.
3. “Magic serum” that contain natural ingredients such as glycolic acid (citrus extract), xanthan gum (fluid that serves to tighten the face) and propelene glycol (moisturizer) was applied to all parts of the face.
4. Continue to use tool that serves botoxology attractive facial skin for 15 minutes and focus on the problems such as wrinkles.
5. To complete the entire process so that the intended outcome is perfect, given a face mask is selected according to the needs of your skin. As anti-wrinkle, whitening and pengecangan.
6. The last process, facial cleansing with a toner, moisturizer after it was given to avoid the face of drought.